NOBODY IS COMING TO SAVE YOU….

The most brutal but yet the most helpful of quotes at this time.

Having spoken and interviewed around 15 people in the last few weeks about their concerns, mostly to do with career moves, redundancy and what to do next here is a short list of things you can think about and the mindset to adapt. There are huge financial and emotional pressures on many people. That is obvious, and I am not immune to such pressures. There are things you can do to mitigate the situation and much of it involves knowing the potential paths that are opening to you. If you adapt an opportunity mindset and take some control of the things you can it should help you feel more in charge of the constantly evolving situation and uncertainty. One thing to remember always is you are doing the best you can and not to beat yourself up about things that have nothing to do with your ability or value to your family or the wider world. You can still be a amazing human being without a job ! All change is difficult and if it is difficult it actually means you are moving into growth.

In no particularly order some headlines  –

  1.  It’s down to you and only you. You will get out exactly what you put in. Effort multiplies via networks you build
  2. Reduce all spend and talk regularly with your partner about your plans and finances but don’t dump your problems on them all the time. If you need to let off steam and talk through things try and do it with some purpose and boundaries
  3.  Network tirelessly. Don’t ask for a job. Add some value
  4. Think like the CEO. Don’t be a jobsworth and do some stuff for free to get your foot in the door
  5. Consider a completely different lifestyle
  6. Don’t expect too much too soon. Unrealistic expectations will destroy your mindset
  7. Enjoy your time. Job or no job you are moving forward in ways you can be proud of! Do other things, try other stuff, challenge yourself…..
  8. Take care of self and ask for help.  Exercise and eat well
  9. Consider a coach or therapist and don’t dump your stress on those closest to you all the time
  10. Laugh. There are bigger issues. Be brave
  11. Amazing things happen when you start living for other people first
  12. Set Goals & Make plans !!!
  13. Be grateful – some people would love your life

Good luck !!!! Stay positive

 

#personalcoach #mindset #loveyourlife

 


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